A Catholic, college preparatory high 学校 located in beautiful Sonoma County.

Diocese Code of Conduct

CODE OF CONDUCT FOR SCHOOL WORKERS

圣罗莎教区牧师及儿童及青少年辅导的行为守则

MINISTRY WITH MINORS

  1. 未成年人 are to be considered as restricted individuals. That is, they are not independent. 无论他们在哪里,无论他们做什么,都必须得到他们父母或监护人的明确了解和同意. They are not adults and are not permitted unfettered decisions.
  2. 神职人员, 宗教, 雇用的人员和志愿者是避免所有的情况,使他们在一个位置上单独与未成年人在教区, 在学校或一个封闭的房间里听忏悔,除非牧师在忏悔室里听忏悔.
  3. In meeting and pastoral counseling involving a minor, excluding the Sacrament of Penance (Confession/Reconciliation), the presence or proximity of another adult is encouraged. 然而, where the presence of another adult is unusual or not practical (piano lessons, disciplinary meeting with an administrator, 等.)
    • another adult should know the meeting is to take place
    •会议地点无障碍,不僻静,光线充足,可以清晰地看到房间
    •除非会议场所的门上有干净的窗户,否则门必须开着
  4. 无人陪伴的未成年人只允许进入教区长的专业区域或教区中心, but never in the living quarters.
  5. 未成年人, age 16 and over, are permitted to work in the rectory, parish residence, 学校 or parish facility, if two adults (over 21 years old) are present. 16岁以下的未成年人不得受雇为教区、学校或教区工作.
  6. 所有成人参与与未成年人一起的事工,必须遵守所有教区的安全环境政策. 许可须由教区/学校/教区机构的安全环境协调员核实.
  7. 当一组未成年人参加有组织的活动或体育活动时,必须有至少两名21岁以上的成年人(和一名与参与者性别相同)在场.
    请注意: A young adult between the ages of 18 and 21 is not permitted to supervise minors; however, 在21岁以上的成年人的监督下,他或她可以以监督的身份参与.
  8. 神职人员, 宗教, employed personnel and volunteers must avoid being the only adult in a bathroom, shower room, locker room, or other dressing areas whenever minors are using such facilities.
  9. Youth trips of any kind must have a minimum of two adult chaperones, at least one of whom should be of the same 性 as the young people. 大型团体必须为每8到10个未成年人配备至少一名成年监护人.
  10. While on trips or program activities, the adults as well as the minors may not use alcohol or controlled substances, and anyone under the influence of such substances cannot participate.
  11. While on youth trips, 神职人员, 宗教, 受雇人员和志愿者不得单独与未成年人或未成年人在同一汽车旅馆/酒店房间过夜. One adult alone is not to engage in an overnight trip with a minor or minors.
  12. 当未成年人出现在圣器室时,圣器室的门总是开着的.
  13. 网络真人百家网性的评论不能对任何未成年人发表,除非是针对特定的课堂或未成年人提出的其他合法问题.
  14. Topics or vocabulary, such as profanity, 诅咒, or vulgar humor, 当教区/学校的行政人员在场时,使用哪些方法会很不舒服, parents/guardians, or another adult, are not to be used in the presence of a minor/minors.
  15. 神职人员, 宗教, 绝对禁止雇用人员和志愿者提供酒精饮料, tobacco products, 管制物品或色情或其他不适合未成年人阅读的读物.
  16. 视听, music (including its lyrics), 互联网, 打印资源在使用之前必须经过筛选,以确保它们对参与者来说是合适的. 没有父母的明确书面许可,是不适合使用限制级电影的. Movies with a stronger designation are forbidden.
  17. 任何时候都必须遵守与未成年人的身体接触的严格界限,而且只能在公共场合下进行. 在以任何方式接触他人之前,都必须表现出谨慎的谨慎和尊重.
  18. 神职人员, 宗教, 在没有得到父母、监护人、牧师或行政人员的事先同意的情况下,受雇人员和志工必须避免定期或昂贵的礼物给孩子和年轻人.
  19. 要求孩子和年轻人对他们的父母保守“秘密”是不合适的, 警察, 等. under threat of physical harm, “punishment by God”, or any other threat.
  20. The use of social media or electronic communication (for example 脸谱网, Instagram, Snapchat, 发短信, 电子邮件等.)应遵守所有适用的州法律,并遵循适当的边界. 任何通过社交媒体与未成年人的交流都应该得到父母或监护人的明确许可,并严格涉及与事工有关的事情.
  21.  No pictures of, 或者未成年人的个人信息可能在没有得到父母或监护人书面许可的情况下被发布在互联网上.
  22. Should an emergency situation arise that involves a minor, appropriate authorities are to be contacted.

PASTORAL COUNSELING WITH MINORS

  1. 教牧辅导只能在教区长或教区设施的专业区域进行, never in the living quarters.
  2. 用于教牧咨询的办公室或教室的门上必须有一扇窗户, or the door must be open during the counseling session.
  3. Unless the subject matter precludes their presence and/or knowledge, parents or guardians of minors should be made aware of the counseling session.
  4. If counseling is expected to extend beyond one session with a minor, evaluation of the situation should be made with the parents or guardians.
  5. 神职人员, 宗教, 雇佣人员和志愿者负责识别未成年人的任何个人/身体吸引力. 在这种情况下,未成年人应该立即转到另一个合格的成年人或有执照的职业.
  6. 忏悔圣礼(忏悔/和解)必须在忏悔或和解礼拜堂或在忏悔服务期间的指定地点举行.
  7. 明显违反行为准则的未成年人概述,必须报告 立即 to the appropriate parish, 学校, 民事和教区(儿童和青少年保护主任)当局, in accordance with civil law and this diocesan policy.